The following is an article reproduced here with permission from the Johansson Coaching Blog. There are many similarities between a martial art like Aikido and traveling, such as increased mindfulness and higher awareness of your body, mind and environment when immersed in a travel experience. In addition, learning an eastern art like Aikido at home is surely a great way to understand another culture, which makes traveling an incredibly rewarding experience.

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“Aikido manifests the ultimate reality: the flowing spontaneous movement of nature within which is packed the unmatched power of ki. Its goal is the formation of the ideal human self unifying body and mind, realized through vigorous mental and physical training, and the attainment of dynamic life in both activities and stillness.”

Kisshomaru Ueshiba

For quite some time I sensed I would like to learn what the martial art is all about, but somehow I did not dare the first step. For the past few years I have been exploring a number of body and mind integration techniques and experienced their incredible power and wisdom. I have been moving between and enjoying two opposite poles: stillness and movement. I explored stillness through various meditations techniques, going deep into places, where all our universal power resides, discovering depths I never thought exist within myself. And, on the other hand, I explored the power of body movement – and was amazed how much power is being released through vigorous movement, dancing and improvising. I never thought of myself as an athletic person, but I found myself extremely enjoying dancing and various sport activities. So here I was: drawn to stillness and movement at the same time. I wanted to experience something, where I could combine both. And here it came: Aikido. I read somewhere that this martial art values both of these qualities. And then, magically, I kept meeting people, who were practicing Aikido, everywhere I looked Aikido word was starring at me. OK, Universe, I get it! I needed to try this.

So here I was: I did some research on Aikido dojos in my area. I called one dojo and they invited me for an introduction practice session. With eagerness I came to the first practice. The master Petra, training Aikido since 25 years, welcomed me at the entrance. Aged approx. 50, but looking extremely young and vigorous. After some other participants appeared (all of them experienced, with at least 5 years of Aikido practice), we started the training. We all sat at the mat and began with the silent meditation, followed by warming up exercises of the whole body. Then we were instructed to do a simple backflip. And then I thought: wait a minute, how long has it been since my last back flip? I guess the last time I did one was in the grammar school sport classes. Wow, I thought, but anyway, I trusted my body and backflipped. Surprisingly, my body still remembered this movement. What happened afterwards: I was basically included in the whole training with all those experienced participants. I was thrown into deep water! Scared at the beginning, I followed the flow. All the students were very patient with me, explained me various techniques and supported me. So here I was: backflipping, rolling over on the mat, attacking, being attacked, and experiencing the fluid motion of my own and my partners bodies. After two hours of practice I was exhausted, all muscles sore, but I was also very centered and at peace. Wow, I said to myself – this feels great. To my surprise, though, during this practice I realized also how tense my body was, and how little I actually trusted it. I am sure there is much more to come here with regards to my body awareness.

What amazes me the most about Aikido is that this martial art is actually not about fighting. In the classical fight we direct one strong energy against the other strong energy. And at the end the stronger energy wins. In Aikido one transforms the energy, which comes from the opponent, through certain techniques, making “the fight” a beautiful dance. Both the attacker and the attacked become one, fluid motion.

I am not sure how my adventure with Aikido will evolve. I definitely want to attend some other practice trainings and learn more about Aikido itself and about the wisdom of my own body. But, above all, this experience made me realise how much is possible, when we fully inhabit our bodies.

IMG_4226The beauty about travelling is the way it holds you in the moment. Almost as if you are in a deep state of meditation, your mind is present and your body is aware of its surroundings. When immersed in a captivating travel experience, your mind does not wander – it is still. You do not think about your grocery list, or the birthday present you need to buy. Your day job is completely forgotten.

That frees up space to take in all that is around you – the sounds, tastes, smells, sight and feel of your surroundings. This heightened awareness is what helps make travel experiences so memorable.

Some of the experiences I remember the most are those that involved all the senses, such as the following:


Romantic Dining in San Gimignano

sangimignanoAs often is the case, the first dinner in a new country is especially good. Is the food really that much better than at subsequent dinners? Probably not, but the novelty of the environment makes it easy to live in the moment and forget your worries. Looking back at our first dinner in San Gimignano, a beautiful medieval town in the heart of Tuscany, I can still taste the wine and the excellent parmesan cheese, ruccola and Prosciutto appetizer. At this dinner, I was totally present and the memories are therefore especially vivid.



Scenic Drive on the West Coast of Mallorca

driving_in_mallorcaOften, a heightened awareness is achieved when your senses become reacquainted with long forgotten sensations. After a long winter that did not want to end, the sun and warmth of Mallorca created a greater sense of awareness in the body and mind. I remember feeling the rays of the sun shining on my face, the sound of the waves gently hitting the coast and the olive groves swaying peacefully in the Mediterranean breeze. On a late summer’s day, this might not have been so memorable. But taken in this context – after a long winter bereft of sun and warmth, the sense of awareness was extraordinary.



Fantastic Day Trip Hiking in the Alps

hiking_lech_austriaHiking is a great way to experience life in the moment. The weight of your pack on your shoulders is hard to fathom, your legs burn from climbing steep precipices, and you long for small comforts like a piece of chocolate. This pain, however, forces you to stay in the moment. There is no where else to go. After a hard day of hiking up the mountain in Lech, Austria, the soup we ordered in the lodge exploded with taste. The soup, which probably came from a can, tasted so good because it felt so rewarding after the strenuous climb.



To me, the beauty about travelling is the heightened awareness of all that is around me. It is why the memory of a simple soup can linger for months or even years after eating it. Sure, this is possible at home too, but the change of scenery makes it so much easier to eliminate distracting thoughts and brings you into the present, fully aware of yourself and your surroundings.


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We have all experienced it before. The panic, fear, or dread felt so acutely during a horrible travel experience gone awry. Everything that can go wrong does. And for that moment in time, you do not know how on earth things will get better. But then things turn around, you find a solution, and you live to tell about it. And how!

I have had a few of these travel experiences in my life and I can absolutely say that while I don’t wish to repeat them, they made me grow as a person and as a traveller.

Losing my passport while en route to Thailand

This one caused pure anguish. A friend of mine and I meticulously planned a trip through Thailand one summer after university. I prepared all my travel documents and put them in a document holder to be worn around the waist. On the way to the airport in Stockholm, I carelessly took it off and placed it in the seat pocket in front of my bus seat. When I realized the error of my ways, I was standing at the check in counter and the bus was long gone.

I wasn’t able to locate the bus until the next day, and when I did, the bus company said there were no documents to be found on the bus. I had no other choice but to cancel the trip completely.  Strangely, my documents turned up a couple of weeks later, but by then it was too late.

Falling through a skylight in Mexico

Another case of carelessness resulted in a severely lacerated hand, cuts on my legs and a mother who ordered a couple of extra strong Margaritas to pass the time while I was getting sewn up. I was 14, on a family vacation in Huatulco, Mexico. Prankster that I was (am), I decided it would be funny to give my family a scare as they left the hotel room. The hotel was built on the side of hill, so it was easy to climb onto the roof of the lower level rooms. I jumped into what looked like a well (to this day I don’t know what a well would be doing on a roof) that was covered in leaves and dirt. I quickly discovered this wasn’t a well, but an old, unwashed skylight made out of glass. My jump shattered the glass and I fell through. The cuts on my hand and legs resulted in a total of 60 stitches, masterfully sewn by a gynecologist who arrived to pick me up on his moped.

A romantic evening that turned out anything but romantic

IMG_1882When I travel, I tend to only book the first night’s accommodation and book the remaining nights on the fly. I like this because it lets me stay flexible and update my travel plans based on tips from locals and other travelers I meet. Normally, this results in a pleasantly serendipitous experience. On a trip to India several years ago, this strategy worked out a lot differently than I had hoped.

My wife and I travelled by ferry and rickshaw from the Gates of India in Mumbai to Murud, a beautiful beach town a couple of hours south of Mumbai. We arrived to discover that every single room was booked, and our hopes for a short respite from the crowds in Mumbai were dashed. Darkness was falling and we were out of ideas, other than sleeping under the stars. Luckily, and that is debatable, a friendly Indian who heard about our plight approached us to offer a room that he still had free. The room, which we paid a comparative fortune for, was an adventure in itself. Poorly lit, made entirely out of concrete, with bars on the inside of the windows and no running water, we pondered whether we would be locked inside.

But when we now look back at our trip to India, Murud has a special place in our memories. No matter where we are and under what circumstances, we can always say, “At least its not Murud!”

On a side note, Murud really is beautiful and you should visit if you are in the area. Just make sure to book in advance if there is a public holiday! See the end of this post for some photos of the beach in Murud, India.

Pain gives way to Happiness

Could these experiences have been avoided? You bet. They were all a result of carelessness and inexperience. But these things happen. Looking back, I tell these stories in a light-hearted manner, although at the time, they were anything but funny. In the end, such painful travel experiences create particularly vivid memories. Memories have a funny way of making the pain fade and instead give way to fond memories, gratefulness, and a strangely deep appreciation for these travel experiences.

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